Archive - Change Your Doctor

The Messy Art of Medicine

Making an appointment to see your doctor isn't all about the diagnosis.

Apr 22 •

Melissa Gilbert

Write Where You Are

I have started Julia Cameron's "Write For Life" because it has been two years since I left my job to write a book. There is no book, but there are…

Apr 15 •

Melissa Gilbert

"Every woman should date a younger man...but never fall in love with him; we're too old for that." But this is a love story...

Apr 9 •

Melissa Gilbert

February 2024

Let's Talk About Menopause and Sex - Part One

We're getting better at talking about menopause, but that conversation is tending to justify why the sex shop is shut when we could be throwing the…

Feb 25 •

Melissa Gilbert

January 2024

The Shame Paradox

The alchemising of shame, not the banishment, will enable our revolution.

Jan 20 •

Melissa Gilbert

Waking From A Sex Sleep...

After a year of self-chosen and empowering celibacy, there came a fork in the road, but how could I ensure I took the right path?

Jan 2 •

Melissa Gilbert

December 2023

Post-Fertility Sexuality

I've attempted to dispense with the concept of post-menopausal invisibility, but now I feel fierce about overthrowing the narrative of socialised…

Dec 10, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

September 2023

A Love Letter to My People

To those who knew they loved me before I loved myself and those I have found since.

Sep 18, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

July 2023

Travelling Solo and the Power of Invisibility

Heading off on a four-month pilgrimage to deepen my relationship with myself, tick some bucket list items off, and see what the world has to offer a…

Jul 15, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

Listening to My God Voice

The conversations about god are changing. I'm noticing that people are reconnecting with a genderless inside presence and calling them god.

Jul 4, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

June 2023

Always Learning...A Weekend With Liz Gilbert & Rob Bell

When Elizabeth Gilbert's social media post randomly arrived on my screen, I responded to my 'yes', registered for her workshop in New York, and then had…

Jun 30, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

My Life in a Tote Bag

There is only so long you can live out of a tote bag. And it is okay to be a separatee.

Jun 20, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

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