Archive - Change Your Doctor

Is Your Heart Okay?

I'm not talking about the organ beating in your chest but the love pulsing in your soul and where limerence fits in

Jun 28 •

Melissa Gilbert

May 2024

Declaring my queerness is the least dramatic of my coming-out moments

May 14 •

Melissa Gilbert

April 2024

The Secret Narcissist

The one that finally kicks your learning over the line.

Apr 29 •

Melissa Gilbert

The Messy Art of Medicine

Making an appointment to see your doctor isn't all about the diagnosis.

Apr 22 •

Melissa Gilbert

Write Where You Are

I have started Julia Cameron's "Write For Life" because it has been two years since I left my job to write a book. There is no book, but there are…

Apr 15 •

Melissa Gilbert

"Every woman should date a younger man...but never fall in love with him; we're too old for that." But this is a love story...

Apr 9 •

Melissa Gilbert

February 2024

Let's Talk About Menopause and Sex - Part One

We're getting better at talking about menopause, but that conversation is tending to justify why the sex shop is shut when we could be throwing the…

Feb 25 •

Melissa Gilbert

January 2024

The Shame Paradox

The alchemising of shame, not the banishment, will enable our revolution.

Jan 20 •

Melissa Gilbert

Waking From A Sex Sleep...

After a year of self-chosen and empowering celibacy, there came a fork in the road, but how could I ensure I took the right path?

Jan 2 •

Melissa Gilbert

December 2023

Post-Fertility Sexuality

I've attempted to dispense with the concept of post-menopausal invisibility, but now I feel fierce about overthrowing the narrative of socialised…

Dec 10, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

September 2023

A Love Letter to My People

To those who knew they loved me before I loved myself and those I have found since.

Sep 18, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

July 2023

Travelling Solo and the Power of Invisibility

Heading off on a four-month pilgrimage to deepen my relationship with myself, tick some bucket list items off, and see what the world has to offer a…

Jul 15, 2023 •

Melissa Gilbert

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